Age difference - is it
important?
As everyone knows, girls as usual mature faster than boys. In the
FSU countries this process is even more accelerated. Many children
here know about a lack of money and food (it's not a secret that
Soviet government sold corn while people there were duying from
femine), they watch all that corruption and unfair proceedings of
the country, challenges of life. Girls, in particular, often face
behavior that in some other countries could be considered
harassment: many women can find a job and earn money only if they
win favor of their male bosses; often ladies are perceived as
merely dolls without brains. Basic instinct of self-preservation
and aiming for improvement make Russian brides search for better
alternatives and men, who can appreciate them.
Until recent years there was a tendency among Russian/Ukrainian
women to marry men close to their age who were either their high
school sweethearts or college and university pals. Statistics show
that 50-60% of marriages break within first three years of the
union. Many women end up leaving the relationship with children,
as well as disappointment in men their age from their home
country. As a result, they turn to foreign men who are older and
expect them to be more courteous, wise and caring.
An additional factor in searching for older men is also women's
psychological perception. Since many girls grow up in "incomplete"
families and are abandoned by their fathers, when they search for
a relationship, on a subconscious level they veer more towards
older partners. In other words, they are looking for a "father
figure". They sometimes don't even realize it, but when they turn
to older men, they are looking for someone to be their protector,
someone who'd take care of them and give them security they were
deprived of as a child.
Although such pressure is getting less in the current days, until
recently a lady could be viewed as an old maid unless she got
married by the age of 22-23. On the contrary, most men do not face
much pressure and begin getting serious about starting a family
only close to their 30s. That automatically puts a 7-8 year
difference between the partners. Add to it the time that men spent
with the "wrong" partner in a previous marriage or relationship,
and that puts available male candidates right at their late 30s -
early 40s, which creates such a drastic age difference between the
ladies and them.
Bottom line is: true love has no boundaries. If you find someone
who seems attractive and interests you as a person, be daring and
take a chance of finding your Russian bride despite the age and
distance.
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