Romance
Men value women basically as a path to
entertainment, and they are extremely entertaining. There is
nothing as uplifting to a man as an attractive woman. He will go
to any length to possess and make love to her. Like a kitten
playing with a string men love to toy with an appealing woman. The
fun leads into the bedroom where it ends up in serious love
making. A clever woman does not mind being used as a toy but she
wants to be paid for her precious time. The ultimate payment is
marriage which provides her with long term benefits. If the man
thinks the binding arrangement will lead to endless nights of
sexual bliss he will agree to becoming the groom. Marriage is a
good deal for both of them. The man feels he is entering a long
term sexual heaven, and the woman feels that she is being treated
to a secure way of living. Love and romance are words used to add
color to men and women's ulterior motives for marriage. But
marriage remains as an instrument of convenience. Men and women
have very little in common. A woman that denies sexual
satisfaction to a man will never see that man again. A man that
offers a woman only his sexual powers will not keep that woman for
any length of time. This is the way things are and those that deny
it are shallow people. They cannot admit to themselves the reality
of human needs. The ideal relationship is between a five hundred
dollar hooker and her steady customer. He will stay with her as
long as she remains good looking and his wallet is full. Until he
goes broke she will be in love with him.
The beauty of being single is having the opportunity to break away
from a bad date. That is great if you find that your date is
unappealing or is not filling your needs. It is rare to find a
woman who will continue having a relationship with an unemployed
guy that is making no attempt to find a job. She will get rid of
him despite all his other fine personality traits. The surest way
for a woman to get rid of an unwanted man is by shutting him out
of her bedroom. That will work every time. No single man will date
a woman that refuses to make love. He might see her a few times
and will quit when he is sure that there won't be any progress. A
woman might have great qualities but if her sexual willingness is
absent she will chase away the best of men.
It is difficult for a guy with a good paying job to remain single
because he will be enticed by the most attractive and sexually
available women. Promises of permanent erotic bliss will cause him
to give up his freedom. But he will awaken one morning to find
himself in chains. He will discover that erotic bliss cannot be
permanent. After getting to know his new wife better he is sure to
find her as self seeking and greedy. If he hasn't yet given up on
women he will have to look for a new sex partner. His next step
will be to find an inexpensive divorce and a new chance to become
single again
. . It is a pity for a woman that has been deserted by a man after
having lived with him for many years. He has used her up and now
that he is finished he has thrown her away like an old rag doll.
It is almost impossible for a woman to get a guy after she has
lost her sex appeal. She will try almost any gimmick to replace
her once attractive self, but a youthful appearance cannot be
replaced. It is also a pity for a worker that has been employed
for many years and is suddenly discharged after found no longer
useful. But some fortunate workers receive severance pay and a
pension. But a woman that is deserted by her husband receives
nothing but bad memories. A woman has a short shelf life and she
must strike while the iron is hot. That means she should squeeze
all she can out of a man while she is still appealing. There is
nothing wrong with a woman putting aside money in her name while
she is desirable. That will be her pension for the time when she
is no longer attractive.
There are shallow people that deny the hard facts about the inner
meaning of relationships. They have their heads in the clouds and
imagine that some sort of pure love exists. If they would take
their heads out of the clouds and look at reality their
shallowness would disappear. For those women that believe in
romance try withholding an erotic experience from your man for a
while and see what happens to your romantic ideas. For those
romantic minded men that deny they are needed for more than a meal
ticket, going broke will awaken them. It is true that there are
sick men that are being cared for by their women, but if you look
a little deeper you will see a big check in the mail that he
shares with her.
There is nothing wrong with the way nature created men and women.
They are compatible in the most important ways. But I think it is
wrong for a man to deny paying a woman well for her sexual favors.
Since her shelf life is short she would be stupid to ask for
nothing. I also think it is wrong for a woman to deny a man her
best sexual performance if he is serving her well. The worst wrong
is to be a shallow person that closes their eyes to nature's plans
for men and women. They spread confusion and try to hide who human
beings really are. But their false ideas about the existence of
romance cannot stand up to experience. The illusion of love has
always crumbled in the face of practical needs. Those old love
fantasies are now starting to crumble faster than ever. Proof is
in the sky rocketing divorce rates. But women will always demand
the marriage contract and men will always want free love. You
cannot blame either of them for their choices, because they both
understand the reality of the future. melviiin1@verizon.net
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